self centered

 self-centred, it's not wrong, but i should try be more considerate of other's feelings.  

 i don't even know what kind of person i am.  at times, i come off as a people pleaser, at times, i come off as a self-centred person.  

let me be in the middle okay?  i find joy in making people's day, but i want to stand firm to my beliefs too!  oh to be like a rheostat, to know how to adjust your ways with people in terms of not hurting yourself.  the art of it.